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~ The Excellent Woman : As Described in the Book of Proverbs by Anne Pratt A 19th-century classic on Proverbs 31! This book is helpful for women in cultivating the character traits and virtues of the Proverbs 31 woman. In the language of Dr. Sprague, "This is a work that will bear to be read more than once, and each successive reading will be likely to reveal some new gem of thought, which, in the general mass of excellence, had been overlooked before. It is a book suitable for the husband to present to his wife, the mother to her daughter, and the brother to his sister; and the more widely it is circulated, the better for the country and the world." Paperback: 252 pages Price: $12.91

~ Damsels in Distress : Biblical Solutions for Problems Women Face by Martha Peace Covering issues from gossip and slander to PMS and legalism, Martha Peace, a best-selling author of The Excellent Wife, offers Biblical insight on problems women face. This straightforward, clear-cut book offers practical solutions in an ideal format for personal reading or group study. "Damsels in Distress" clearly reveals God's principles for dealing with the common problems women face—first with others, then with themselves. Through its pages you will be stimulated to honestly analyze the problems through the grid of Scripture and then formulate practical applications that bring glory to God. -Pat Ennis, professor, The Master's College Paperback: 187 pages Price: $11.19

~ The Excellent Wife : A Biblical Perspective by Martha Peace This volume discusses the issue of Biblical submission and a wife's responsibility to Christ, her husband, and in her home; how to deal with loneliness, fear, anger; and much more. Pastor Jay E. Adams writes: "Martha Peace, a Biblical counselor of women, has written an Excellent Volume. Not only does it explain what God requires of a Christian wife, but it explains clearly how to obey God's commandments in order to become that wife. Get it, read it and profit from it." Paperback: 257 pages Price: $9.97

~ The Excellent Wife Study Guide by Martha Peace The study guide is broken down into chapters that correspond with the chapters in the book. It encourages one to digest, prayerfully reflect, and reinforce the lessons taught in The Excellent Wife. Spiral-bound: 104 pages Price: $9.95

~ The Fruit of Her Hands by Nancy Wilson Nancy Wilson is a "Titus 2 woman" who has written this book to "teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands" (Titus 2:3-5). She offers scriptural advice for Christian women to be a woman of the Word, who walks with God, who respects and submits to her husband as the head and spiritual leader of the family (Eph. 5:22-24), content in the assignments God gives them, takes her responsibilities in homemaking, and knows how to encourage her husband. She also explains what Biblical submission looks like in the context of marriage and what it is not. Contrary to what a few of the reviewers here have stated, Biblical submission is neither about being treated as a doormat nor enduring physical/emotional abuse, etc. Other issues addressed are finances, handling criticisms, etc. Paperback: 109 pages Price: $9.00

~ Fascinating Womanhood by Helen Andelin This book is a fun read and offers helpful advice for women on how to be "fascinating" and feminine in a distinct way. What makes a woman fascinating to her husband? What is happiness in marriage for a woman? These are just two of the questions Helen B. Andelin answers in this bestselling classic which has already brought new happiness and life to millions of marriages. It offers timeless wisdom, practical advice, and old-fashioned values to meet the needs and challenges of today’s fascinating woman such as: what traits today’s men find irresistible in a woman, how to awaken a man’s deepest feelings of love, eight rules for a successful relationship, how to rekindle your love life, how to bring out the best in your man—and reap the rewards, and much more. While there are some perspectives of Mrs. Andelin which we do not agree with (particularly her views on I Cor. 7:3-5 and I Cor. 13:11), this book has so much wonderful advice and helpful wisdom! Mrs. Andelin is a Mormon but all of her teachings on beautiful womanhood are found in or consistent with the Bible. Mass Market Paperback: 416 pages Price: $7.99

~ Let Me Be a Woman by Elisabeth Elliot "In order to learn what it means to be a woman, we must start with the One who made her." Working from Scripture, well-known speaker and author Elisabeth Elliot shares her observations and experiences in a number of essays on what it means to be a Christian woman, whether single, married, or widowed. Mass Market Paperback: 416 pages Price: $7.99

~ Becoming a Titus 2 Woman by Martha Peace A mentor is a guide, a teacher, a counselor, an advisor; all words that apply to the Titus 2 woman. This book is a tool to train older women to successfully mentor younger women. Within these pages are many examples of how to disciple younger women. It is practical in its approach as it teaches how, by God's grace, we develop the character that God wants every older woman to have. It discusses the responsibilities of older women in helping, teaching, and encouraging the younger women on matters of faith, husband, children. Paperback: 164 pages Price: $8.43

~ The America's Test Kitchen Family Cookbook Revised Edition (Ring-Bound) by America's Test Kitchen Featuring more than 1,200 kitchen-tested recipes, 1,500 photographs and no-nonsense equipment and ingredient ratings. The recipes offer a very wide range of dishes—from "weekday" fare like Creamy Rice Casserole, Cheesy Nachos with Spicy Beef, and Skillet Lasagna, to dressier recipes, including Pan-Seared Lamb Chops with Red Wine Rosemary Sauce, Roasted Trout Stuffed with Bacon and Spinach, and Chocolate Marshmallow Mousse. There are "specialty" chapters devoted to sandwiches, drinks, and slow cooker and pressure cooker dishes; a grilling section is a tutorial in itself. Ring-bound: 726 pages Price: $23.07

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~ Beautiful Home on a Budget by Emilie Barnes Explore your decorating dream—without breaking your budget! Home-management expert Emilie Barnes and professional designer Yoli Brogger offer refreshingly practical ideas to inspire you to greater creativity in your home. These longtime frineds share quick tips and shortcuts to make every decorating project simple, fun, and worth your while. You'll soon be able to: think (or rethink) a room to a cozy finish, deck those bare walls with style, treat windows to an elegant new look, discover decorating treasures right in your home. A beautiful and inviting home waits within your house—beckoning family and friends alike to the warm and comforting scene you created! Paperback: 96 pages

~ An Invitation to Tea : Special Celebrations With Treasured Friends by Emilie Barnes Rediscover the amiable art of teatime hospitality, celebrating the great and small events of life with just the right touch. This book contains simple directions plus easy-to-prepare recipes to make every gathering enjoyable. Ten enchanting celebrations, including a traditional Victorian afternoon tea, a springtime garden tea party, tea for two, and a special holiday tea, are featured along with imaginative ideas for themes, menus, table settings, invitations, and more. Paperback: 48 pages Price: $8.99

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~ The Spirit of Loveliness : Bringing Reality, Creativity, and Order to Your Life by Emilie Barnes Believing that spirit of loveliness lives in every woman, Emilie Barnes shows you how to weave these characteristics into the fabric of your life and transform your home into a haven of welcome and blessing, have a gracious and welcoming home, a warm and caring heart, a serene and joyful spirit, etc. Hardcover: 160 pages

~ The New Kitchen Science : A Guide to Know the Hows and Whys for Fun and Success in the Kitchen by Howard Hillman The science authority Howard Hillman provides the latest findings about everything from cooking methods, equipment, and food storage to nutrition and health concerns. It provides answers to the interesting culinary questions that anyone interested in cooking would have. This book is divided into sections including Cooking Methods, Baking, Seasonings, Food Storage, and Health and Nutrition. In this authoritative and sprightly volume Hillman begins with a list of the all-too-familiar "mistakes good cooks make," which points to explanations for why those eggs went rubbery, that batch of ice cream turned icy and the roast mysteriously shrunk, etc. Paperback: 336 pages Price: $9.75

~ Home Comforts : The Art & Science of Keeping House by Cheryl Mendelson Virtually everyone enjoys a crisply ironed dress shirt, clean sheets on a well-made bed, and a savory home-cooked meal. Yet housekeeping today stands as a somewhat neglected, if not maligned, job. Mendelson's well-researched book includes meticulous sections on food (for example, which foods belong in the fridge versus the pantry, food storage times, picking the freshest fruits and vegetables, and keeping your kitchen and food sanitary) as well as laundry (caring for various fabrics, how to read—and read between the lines of—clothing care labels, and removing stains). Mendelson covers a lot of ground, and as she herself points out, readers shouldn't feel required to do everything mentioned in the book—simply pick the activities that seem appropriate for your particular home. This is a comprehensive reference book that should serve homemakers well and induce a greater appreciation for the effort and specialized knowledge that go into keeping house. —review by Kris Law Paperback: 896 pages Price: $12.97

~ The Naturally Healthy Woman by Shonda Parker Discusses nutritional and lifestyle choices that affect women from puberty, through the childbearing years, and as they age. Women need to prepare for menopause and the common problems associated with their aging, including osteoporosis and hormonal fluctuations, by building nutritionally and spiritually strong bodies. This book also deals frankly with problems, normal and abnormal changes in women's bodies through different stages in life, and how to cope using herbal medicines and supplements, and traditional medical procedures. Paperback: 247 pages

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~ The Naturally Healthy Pregnancy : The Essential Guide to Nutritional and Botanical Medicine For the Childbearing Years by Shonda Parker Discusses how to eat for a healthy baby, which herbs are safe and which are dangerous during pregnancy, and the best ways to minimize those times of nausea and discomfort. Shonda Parker provides information to guide the pregnant mom and her baby to good health with a balanced approach to herbal and traditional medicine. Paperback: 325 pages

~ Bless this Food : Four Seasons of Menus, Recipes, and Table Graces by Julia Pitkin, Karen and George Grant A beautiful hardcover book that celebrates the seasons with menus and recipes specific to that season's bounty. From Goose Gravy and Mandarin Tossed Salad to Banana Pound Cake and Sausage Pastries, "Bless This Food" defines the essence of food, hearth and home. It is a unique cookbook that combines wonderful menus and recipes with table prayers, food customs, and religious and cultural traditions. The menus are for many varied occasions—traditional national holidays, family gatherings, religious celebrations, ethnic festivals, life passages, and get-together's with friends. Organized by seasons, "Bless This Food" is eclectic in its choice of cuisines-from French, Italian, English, American, Jewish, and Irish to Native-American, African-American, and Hispanic. Hardcover: 240 pages Price: $22.95

~ Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition (Thumb Indexed) : The Definitive Guide to Manners by Peggy Post It is truly a wonder that more Americans don't consider Emily Post's discourses on etiquette one of the most useful reference books published, next to a dictionary, a thesaurus, and a world atlas. And with great-granddaughter-in-law's modernization, this seventeenth edition, covering birth through death, reflects what must be done concerning hundreds of social conventions. Wondering what are appropriate e-mail manners? Look no further than Peggy Post's list of 10 e-mail transgressions. Want to stifle the boorish conversationalist? Check carefully the author's witty rejoinders. With wisdom, wit, and no small amount of humility, Post carries on well the intent of her family: "Courteous people enrich their own spirits by making other people feel good." —review by Barbara Jacobs Hardcover: 896 pages Price: $26.37

~ Creating a SenseSational Home by Terry Willits Walk through each room of your home with interior decorating professional Terry Willits—and discover how awakening the five senses of sight, smell, taste, touch, and sound can create an atmosphere of love and cheer. From warmly lit entrances that welcome family and friends, to comfortable, homey interiors that invite them to stay and unwind ... from fragrant bouquets to the tranquil ticking of a clock ... Creating a SenseSational Home shows you how to turn your home into a relaxing, inviting, and refreshing environment. Hardcover: 208 pages

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~ Simply SenseSational Decorating by Terry Willits From the initial step of dreaming about your decorating style, to selecting that first fabric, to placing the final touches of accessories, this book gives simple, inexpensive ideas to transform your home one step at a time. Hardcover: 144 pages

~ Making It Home Magazine : Rediscovering the Power of Homemaking by Linear Wave Publishing [Subscribe via magazine's website] The mission of this magazine is to support and encourage women who have chosen to devote themselves entirely to their families. Magazine: ~60 pages 1-Year Subscription (6 issues): $18.00 (U.S. residents)

~ The Child at Home by John S. C. Abbott Available at Grace and Truth Books. For all who cherished The Mother At Home, finally, John Abbott's sequel is back in print! With chapters on typical parental subjects but presented in a most un-typical and illustrative way! Instead of lectures on obedience, responsibility, holiness, repentance, character, truth, the pages of "The Child at Home" are filled with dozens of stories, easily understood by even the very young, that vividly plant those very lessons in the heart in memorable ways. A striking chapter on the dreadful dangers of embarking on the habit of deception. Paperback: 133 pages Price: $12.00

~ The Mother at Home by John S. C. Abbott Long esteemed as one of the most valued works from the 19th century on the art of mothering and the glory of the work of the mother at home. For any girl who was raised without much discipline and in need of instruction on proper discipline of her own children, this is a superb guide. Christian mothers who want biblical counsel on Christian child rearing will find this book valuable. Seven chapters: The mother’s responsibility; the mother’s authority; the mother’s difficulties; faults and errors; religious instruction; fruits of piety; results. Paperback: 148 pages Price: $13.29

~ A Little Book of Manners : Courtesy & Kindness For Young Ladies by Emilie Barnes; illustrations by Michal Sparks Reading level: Ages 6-11. An enchanting book that helps little girls learn courtesy and kindness. It teaches them the basics of good manners, meeting and greeting people, shaking hands, phone etiquette, how to be a good friend, table setting, mealtime behavior, how to entertain friends and make everyone feel welcome, how to write thank you notes, how to answer invitations to a party, party manners, and more. Girls will learn that manners are more than simple rules to remember—they're a way of showing love! A beautifully-illustrated book with pink and yellow pages along with an adorable blue bow on the cover. Paperback: 32 pages Price: $10.19

~ A Little Book of Manners For Boys by Bob and Emilie Barnes, et al.; illustrations by Michal Sparks Reading level: Ages 6-11. This book is chock-full of manly advice for boys in different situations such as meeting people, eating at table, conversing with others, and more. Gives basic rules of courtesy and friendship every boy should know about and more. Paperback: 32 pages Price: $9.74

~ What the Bible Says About Parenting : Biblical Principle For Raising Godly Children by John MacArthur More than ever, Christians need to know what the Bible actually teaches about parenting, and put it into practice. Pastor/teacher John MacArthur presents time-proven principles of biblical parenting clearly and carefully to help parents make sense of their duties before God and to bring up their children in the ways of the Lord. Paperback: 256 pages Price: $10.00

~ Training Hearts, Teaching Minds : Family Devotions Based on the Shorter Catechism by Starr Meade This is a wonderful resource for parents to integrate the Westminster Shorter Catechism with family devotion time. This book has daily readings that aids in memorization by: devoting six days per question; explains the catechism in simple language; provides six different meditations on the main points of each question; includes key Scripture readings; takes just a few minutes each day, allowing time for discussion and review; is useful in the home, church, or classroom. David F. Wells said of this book: "A superb, imaginative example of how to teach historic Christian faith to our children. This is a case of the right book coming at the right time." George Grant says it "provides the practical resources to infuse family devotions with meaning, purpose, and lively joy. This is a book that every family will want to have and use." And Michael S. Horton writes, "The supply of practical guides to the catechism for passing the faith on to our covenant children falls short of the demand. Starr Meade helps to close that significant gap. I heartily recommend this book." Paperback: 349 pages Price: $9.74

~ The Heart of Anger : Practical Help for the Prevention and Cure of Anger in Children by Lou Priolo Anger! Is it ever a problem in your home? Do your children ever speak to you in angry, disrespectful tones? Do they ever fight between themselves? Have you ever lost your patience and composure when dealing with an infuriating situation in the home? This new book deals with anger's root causes, offering corrective advice from a biblical perspective. Pastor and radio-teacher John MacArthur writes, "This book goes beyond the external manifestations of anger and deals with the internal source—the thoughts and intents of the heart. I know of no other book that addresses this problem with such practical and applicable biblical wisdom." Paperback: 201 pages Price: $11.16

~ Teach Them Diligently : How to Use the Scriptures in Child Training by Lou Priolo The bookshelves in your home no doubt contain volumes of books, manuals, seminar notes, magazine articles, and video and audio cassettes purporting to address parenting from a Christian point of view. With rare exception, however, most of today's Christian parenting resources fail to emphasize what is perhaps the most important aspect of true biblical parenting—how to relate the Bible to the disciplinary process in practical ways. Do we really know how to use the Bible for doctrine, reproof, correction, and instruction in righteousness with our children? This little book will augment and strengthen your parenting skills as you learn how to use the Scriptures more thoroughly and effectively in your child training. Paperback: 160 pages Price: $9.24

~ Age of Opportunity : A Biblical Guide to Parenting Teens by Paul David Tripp Provides practical Biblical advice on how to turn struggles during the teenage years into opportunities for communication and growth, and how to steer your teen-age son/daughter more toward Christ rather than the world. Paperback: 291 pages Price: $9.74

~ Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp A biblical approach to child rearing and training up a child. When parents today are turning more and more toward pop psychology and worldly wisdom, this book instead help parents find answer from God's Word. The author encourages discipline in an atmosphere of trust and communication. Pastor and best-selling author John MacArthur writes that this book is "solid, trustworthy, biblical help for parents...you won’t find a more excellent guide." Paperback: 211 pages Price: $10.74

~ Future Men by Douglas Wilson Our boys are future men. Unbelief cannot look past surfaces. Unbelief squashes; faith teaches. Faith takes a boy aside and tells him that this part of what he did was good, while that other part of what he did got in the way and how to do it better next time. This is a Christian guide to raising strong, masculine, virtuous sons, contrary to the effemininity and distorted masculinities of contemporary culture. As we look to Scripture for patterns of masculinity for our sons, we find them manifested perfectly in the life of the Lord Jesus Christ. He is the one who set the ultimate pattern for friendship, for courage, for faithfulness, and integrity. Paperback: 197 pages Price: $9.24

~ Family Reformation Magazine [Subscribe via magazine's website] Not just another light and fluffy snack with tidbits and bandages, Family Reformation magazine will challenge families to discover the wonder and power found in God's prescription for all aspects of family interaction — biblical answers that will impact future generations! For those who long to worship God and enjoy life together as a family, this magazine will help show you creative ways to do just that and to give some tools to lead your children in the paths of righteousness. Magazine Charter Subscription

~ Homeschooling Today Magazine [Subscribe via magazine's website] Homeschooling Today magazine, a distinctively Christian publication, is committed to delivering trustworthy and timely articles that provide encouragement and spiritual growth to Christian families involved in the mission of educating their children. One of the most comprehensive home education magazine available, it provides everything from unit studies and literature reviews to encouragement for mothers and leadership helps for fathers! Magazine 1-Year Subscription: $21.99 (U.S. residents)

~ For Instructions in Righteousness : A Topical Reference Guide For Biblical Child-Training [Available via Doorposts website] This book is a topical Bible for parents. It includes hundreds of verses on over 50 areas of sin. Each chapter includes the following listings: stories and people in the Bible that illustrate obedience and disobedience in a particular area; what the Bible says will, or should, happen to a person who sins in this way; what the Bible likens a person to when he indulges in this sin, and ideas for practical objects lessons using these examples; parallel ideas from the Bible for "rewards" and encouragement for children who show progress towards overcoming this sin; fully quoted memory verses. Spiral-bound: Over 300 pages Price: $30.00

~ Plants Grown Up : Projects For Sons on the Road to Manhood [Available via Doorposts website] This book helps parents teach their sons about becoming godly men. It offers hundreds of ideas for Bible study projects, reading material, and practical everyday activities to help train your sons for godly manhood. Evaluation questions at the end of each chapter help parents and sons pinpoint weaknesses, discuss areas of improvement, and pray specifically for spiritual growth. Spiral-bound: 500 pages Price: $45.00

~ Polished Cornerstones : Projects For Daughters on the Path to Womanhood by Pam Forster [Available via Doorposts website] This book helps parents teach their daughters about becoming godly women. Helps you focus on the skills and attitudes your daughters need to develop. It offers hundreds of different ideas for Bible study projects, reading material, and practical, everyday activities to help prepare your daughters for godly womanhood. Spiral-bound: 575 pages Price: $45.00

~ The Family at Home by Gorham D. Abbott Available at Grace and Truth Books. This completes the Trilogy of books, authored by the Abbott brothers, which began with The Mother at Home and The Child at Home. This final volume in the set contains a virtual plethora of material for the entire family. Its 68 chapters cover such diverse topics as: Punctuality, Procrastination, Mutual Forbearance, Maxims on Waste, Nursing, Accidents, Correcting Mistakes, Courtship and Marriage, Care of Children, Family Prayer, Advice to a Young Tradesman, Helping One Another, Reverence to the Aged, Christian Patriotism, Government of the Tongue, Reading, Common Sense, Politeness, Maxims Against Sin, Conscience, The Widow and the Fatherless, Christian Contentment and Cheerfulness, Hints for Young Persons, Rules for Daily Conduct, Brothers and Sisters, Decision in Religion, Remarks on Religious Education and much more. Paperback: 364 pages Price: $16.50

~ Christian Living in the Home by Jay E. Adams Building a strong family is a challenge in the best of times. Christians will find this volume full of practical, biblical advice on Christ-centered family living, communicating with family members, family guidance and discipline, living with an unbelieving spouse, and many other areas. Pastors, counselors, and study groups will value this work for its insight, clarity, and faithfulness to God's Word. This best-selling title will challenge, encourage, and aid the reader in the development of a truly Christian home. Paperback Price: $8.99

~ Of Domestical Duties by William Gouge Many consider this one of the best books ever written on the family–it is a 17th century Puritan classic in the one of the areas where the Puritans were the acknowledged masters. In the first part, Gouge explains the foundation of family duties, based on Ephesians 5:21- 6:9. The second part deals with the husband-wife relationship. The third focuses on the duties of wives, and the fourth with the duties of husbands. The fifth examines the duties of children, and the sixth, the duties of parents. The final parts examine the relationships and duties of servants and their masters. While some of Gouge's material is outdated, his emphasis and advice are timeless on the whole. Paperback: 516 pages Price: $34.99

~ Disciplines of a Godly Family by Kent & Barbara Hughes This book presents a consistent, creative, loving approach to rearing children. They draw deeply from the Bible and their own years of raising children in this warm and intimate book. Chapter topics include establishing a solid family heritage, promoting affection between family members, encouraging godliness in children, using appropriate discipline, and helping children cultivate enriching lifelong habits. The Hugheses also offer tips for fun and affordable family vacations, creating family traditions, and starting a prayer notebook. They even give a suggested list of books and videos that should be in every family's library. Paperback: 256 pages Price: $10.87

~ Your Family, God's Way : Developing and Sustaining Relationships in the Home by Wayne Mack Gives illustrations of how communication breaks down and how to identify areas of improvement. Expounds on godly relationships in the family, focusing mainly in communication, and how to turn discord into concord. Paperback: 227 pages Price: $8.46

~ The Role of Children in the Meeting of the Church by Douglas Phillips The biblical example is that entire families are present for corporate worship. Age-segregated worship is rooted in evolutionary humanism, not biblical Christianity. "Suffer the little children" to be in the presence of God and begin to experience the true blessing of family-centered worship. Audio CD: Approx. 60 minutes Price: $7.70

~ Uniting Church and Home : A Blueprint For Rebuilding Church Community by Eric Wallace Filled with practical, workable ideas to help churches bring families back together and for integrating the church and home. The centrality of the church is to be embraced by the home, not resisted. Mike Farris (President of Home School Legal Defense Association) writes about this book: "Blueprint will help pastors who want to build strong churches that support the work of Christian families. And, just as important, it will help Christian parents who want to build strong families that support the life of the church." Paperback: 287 pages Price: $15.95

~ I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris While most Christians agree to seek purity and save sex for marriage, few have been given a blueprint for how that should affect their view of dating and love. In I Kissed Dating Goodbye, Joshua Harris exposes the "Seven Habits of Highly Defective Dating" and offers a realistic outline of how to have a biblical vision of marriage. Harris contends that one must begin with a new attitude, viewing love, purity, and singleness from God's perspective rather than thinking that love and romance are to be enjoyed "solely for recreation." In such well-named chapters as "Guarding Your Heart" and "What Matters at Fifty," Harris encourages the reader to look at one's character rather than reveling in infatuation, to regard love as a truly selfless, biblical act rather than a feeling. --review by Jill Heatherly Paperback: 238 pages Price: $10.39

~ Boy Meets Girl by Joshua Harris Joshua Harris follows up his bestselling I Kissed Dating Goodbye with Boy Meets Girl, the story of how he met and married his wife, Shannon. Where Harris's first book encouraged readers to throw off modern ideas of romantic fixation, Boy Meets Girl goes to the next level and urges single Christian men and women to pursue courtship, and ultimately marriage, thoughtfully and prayerfully. Harris succeeds in hammering home the point that obedience to God's word, selfless love, community, purity, and satisfaction in God are the most important aspect of any relationship. The last section of the book is particularly practical, discussing forgiveness of past sexual sin, questions to ask before tying the knot, and how an understanding of our sinful nature can lead to conflict resolution. --review by Jill Heatherly Paperback: 240 pages Price: $11.99

~ Her Hand in Marriage : Biblical Courtship in the Modern World by Douglas Wilson One of the most thorough Biblical explanation of courtship. It puts beyond question that a Biblical approach does not demand "arranged" marriage, but does see parental guidance at the forefront in your child's selection of a lifelong partner. Covers four major themes: "Parental Authority", "Preparing Daughters", Preparing Sons", and Culmination of Courtship". Biblical courtship provides a wonderful freedom. It involves familial wisdom and godly protection. Grounded upon the involved authority of the father, courtship delights in its public connection to the lives of the families. Sexual purity is a great inheritance for a marriage, and part of a father's job is to guarantee and protect that heritage. Paperback: 95 pages Price: $7.50

~ Sex is Not the Problem (Lust is) : Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated World by Joshua Harris Lust isn't just a guy problem; it's a human problem. And unless we honestly confront it, lust will destroy our relationships and our lives. Joshua Harris calls a generation bombarded with images of sexual sin back to the freedom and joy of holiness. This book, straightforward without being graphic, speaks to those entrenched in lust or just flirting with temptation. Honestly sharing his own struggles, Harris exposes lust's tactics and helps readers create a personal plan for fighting back. Men and women will find hope in God's grace and learn the secrets to lasting change. Board Book: 192 pages Price: $11.19

~ Disciplines of a Godly Man : Complete With Study Guide by R. Kent Hughes Hughes devoted this book to the practical outworking of discipline on subjects like purity, marriage, prayer, the tongue, the mind, our work, leadership, ministry, and many more. Pastor and best-selling author John MacArthur says, "Discipline is a subject about which the Scriptures say much—but contemporary authors have been peculiarly silent. Kent Hughes fills a gaping void with this superb volume.... If there is a spark of spiritual desire in your soul, this book will surely kindle it into a blazing passion for godly discipline." And John Piper writes: "To open this book and find someone taking seriously the biblical call of ‘agonizing to enter the kingdom’ and… boxing and sweating like a champion to get victory over sin is the most refreshing thing I could have set my eyes on." Paperback: 304 pages Price: $10.39

~ The Complete Husband : A Practical Guide to Biblical Husbanding by Lou Priolo The author discusses what it takes to be a "Biblical husband" and turns his years of biblical counseling wisdom to the subject of being a husband that the Lord Jesus Christ wants all Christian men to be. Priolo shows men how the Bible instructs them to "know their wives." After all, wives have dreams, goals, desires and sorrows, just like men. It is the husband's job to find out what they are and "cultivate" his wife so that she becomes spiritually fertile. Pastor Jay E. Adams says, "In this practical book about husbands, the author endeavors to help them to love their wives as Christ loves His Church. In doing so, he treats such topics as loving leadership, communication, and sexual relations. Oh, and by the way, wives are encouraged to read it also." Paperback: 293 pages Price: $10.37

~ The Exemplary Husband : A Biblical Perspective by Stuart Scott Stuart Scott has written a book that gives a biblical and practical blueprint for men who want to live out God's mandate for Christian husbands. He lays out a clear foundation based on the "great and foremost" commandment, and then in practical terms teaches husbands how to love their wives. Wayne Mack says, "This book is replete with God's infallible, inerrant and very practical perspectives on the what, why, and how of being the best husband any man could be. I recommend it highly." Paperback: 365 pages

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~ The Exemplary Husband Study Guide by Stuart Scott A study guide to accompany the book. There are various charts that provide an organized plan to keep track of progress. Spiral-bound: 100 pages Price: $9.95

~ Fidelity by Douglas Wilson We live in a time when marital fidelity is under assault. Driven by the forces of relativism, our society assaults sexual infidelity on numerous fronts. The push for homosexual marriages, for example, comes at the end of the fall into perversion, not the beginning. Faithless husbands began the fall long ago, and our culture, with all its washed-out self-help books, fails to address the real problem—sin. Addressed to men, this book hits hard, using clear language, focusing on specific sins with specific solutions: adultery, divorce, polygamy, celibacy, pornography, and more. But in the end, the antidote to all sexual temptation is simple—the godly honoring of the marriage bed. Paperback: 168 pages Price: $8.47

~ The Quest For Meekness and Quietness of Spirit by Matthew Henry The famed Puritan and author of the world's famous Bible commentary, Matthew Henry (1662-1714), defines what meekness is, shows what excellence there is in it, and makes numerous applications. This book is a wonderful treatment of 1 Peter 3:4, "Even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price" and exceptional for training girls in this habit. As Matthew Henry writes, “Next to the beauty of holiness, which is the soul’s agreement with God, is the beauty of meekness, which is the soul’s agreement with itself. Behold how good and how pleasant a thing it is for the powers of the soul to dwell in unity, the reason knowing how to rule the affections, at the same time, knowing how to obey.” Paperback: 125 pages Price: $9.24

~ The Holiness of God by R.C. Sproul Few authors possess the keen ability to help readers come into a grasp of the nature of God's holiness; but in this book Dr. Sproul (along with his wits and unique sense of humor) is able to poignantly do that, transporting the reader into the awesome presence of God. Dr. Sproul helps readers dig deeper beneath a superficial surface of what it means that God is holy—bringing us into a deeper understanding and love of who God is, a greater awe for His absolute holiness, and a state of reverence in worship. As Jonathan Edwards, the famous Reformed preacher, once wrote: "A true love of God must begin with a delight in his holiness, and not with a delight in any other attribute; for no other attribute is truly lovely without this." Paperback: 240 pages Price: $10.00

~ Debt-Free Living : How to Get Out of Debt (and Stay Out) by Larry Burkett Designed to equip individuals with sound biblical principles and solid practical advice so they can dig out and stay out of debt. Answers questions such as: Is it better to own or to rent? Is borrowing a sin? When is bankruptcy a good idea? What types of credit should I avoid? Paperback: 232 pages Price: $10.00

~ The Family Financial Workbook : A Practical Guide to Budgeting by Larry Burkett A tool that a family can use to manage their finances with God's direction. With a comprehensive collection of easy-to-follow worksheets, practicality is key feature of this great resource. Paperback: 144 pages Price: $10.39

~ Dangerous Journey : The Story of Pilgrim's Progress by Oliver Hunkin; illustrations by Alan Parry Reading level: Ages 9-12. John Bunyan's timeless story of The Pilgrim's Progress retold for children in this beautifully-produced, large-format version. It tells a rousing adventure story to children while at the same time introducing them to Bunyan's classic allegory of the Christian's life journey before he enters heaven. This book teaches children about the sinfulness of mankind and our need of God, the wickedness and onslaughts of satan, God's holiness and goodness, and His faithfulness to His people. Hardcover: 126 pages Price: $14.30

~ The Light Princess by George MacDonald Reading level: Ages 4-8. The fact that George MacDonald—a scholar as well as a preacher and writer—once read this fairy tale to his students instead of giving them a lecture says volumes about the man and his beliefs. It also says much about his faith in the power of stories. The Light Princess is a simple enough tale, clearly written for children—a princess at her christening is cursed by a wicked witch with lightness (she floats blissfully about the castle all day long, and gets into all sorts of adventures, as one can easily imagine)—yet it holds a powerful spiritual truth. Gravity, weight, sorrow, suffering—all of this the princess misses, but with all of these she misses love, for what is love without weight, without body? What is love without falling? She discovers this truth, of course, only at the last minute when a faithful prince loves her enough to die for her. Sometimes it's not a ponderous lecture—or sermon—that we need in order to experience what incarnation is about. --Doug Thorpe Paperback: 110 pages Price: $6.95

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~ The Maiden's Bequest / The Minister's Restoration / The Laird's Inheritance : Three Novels in One Volume by George MacDonald Three powerful novels from the Scottish poet, preacher and writer George MacDonald who inspired C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien. (Lewis called MacDonald his "master.") All three books are great reads for anyone looking for a good read in Christian fiction. MacDonald's fiction combined the man's immense spiritual understanding with his innate storytelling ability. His works belong in every family's library. Hardcover: 640 pages

~ The Princess and the Goblin by George MacDonald; illustrations by Arthur Hughes Reading level: Ages 9-12. A mysterious silver-haired woman and a brave young miner help prevent a mischievous pack of subterranean creatures from kidnapping a little princess and flooding the passageways of a mine. An unabridged classic of juvenile fiction from a master storyteller offers youngsters thrill-packed entertainment along with valuable lessons about bravery and loyalty. Paperback: 256 pages Price: $3.99

~ The Tale of Three Trees : A Traditional Folktale by Angela Elwell Hunt; illustrations by Tim Jonke Reading level: Ages 9-12. Retold by Angela Elwell Hunt. Three trees growing on a hilltop dream of grand futures, but when they're claimed by woodcutters, other things happen. One becomes a manger that holds the Christ child, another a humble fishing boat that carries Jesus and his followers, and the third is cut into stout timbers that become Jesus's cross. A traditional folktale about the power of God's love to transform and renew. Tim Jonke's beautiful pictures bring this story to life. Your children will enjoy this wonderful story and learn that God will be with them as they grow up to become whatever God wants them to be. Hardback: 25 pages Price: $10.00

~ A Basket of Flowers : A Young Girl's Fight Against Injustice by Christoph Von Schmid Reading level: Ages 9-12. This book portrays the life of a sweet young girl and the godly life she lives with her widowed father. She demonstrates godly character traits, even in the face of false accusations and seemingly impossible circumstances. She portrays a picture of meekness and forgiveness that will serve to further instruct your children of the love and mercy of God. Paperback: 208 pages Price: $5.99

~ The King Without a Shadow by R.C. Sproul; illustrations by Liz Bonham Reading level: Ages 4-8. A young boy's questions about shadows lead a king to seek out a prophet who can help him find the only King who is without a shadow—God Himself. The message of God's holiness comes alive in this colorfully illustrated book, ideal for children and parents alike. Hardcover: 32 pages Price: $11.89

~ The Priest With Dirty Clothes : A Timeless Story of God's Love and Forgiveness by R.C. Sproul; illustrations by Liz Bonham Reading level: Ages 9-12. Based on the story of Joshua the high priest (in the book of Zechariah), a priest desperately searches for a way to cleanse his dirty clothes before he stands before the king and is sent to the prince. The prince offers the perfect gift - his own clothes. A dual story relates a grandfather telling two children about how Jesus cleans and covers their heart. It illustrates how we can only stand before our King being "clothed" not in our own supposed "righteousness," but only as Christ robed us in His perfect/spotless righteousness. Hardcover: 48 pages

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~ Conduct For the Crayon Crowd by Edna Gerstner Reading level: Up to 8. This is a collection of 36 short stories written over 30 years ago by Edna Gerstner (the wife of the late Reformed theologian Dr. John H. Gerstner), written for her daughter Rachel (collected before she turned six) to teach her about life, marriage, election, predestination, the will of man, the law of God, the Ten Commandments, prayer, and many other issues that are hard for children to understand. Apparently the manuscript lay in a shoebox "undiscovered" for sometime before someone convinced Mrs. Gerstner to allow it to go to print. Hardcover: 183 pages Price: $18.95

~ The Big Book of Questions & Answers : A Family Devotional Guide to the Christian Faith by Sinclair B. Ferguson Reading level: Ages 4-8. Questions! Questions! Questions! Children are full of them. Where did I come from? What is God like? Is there only one God? Is Jesus still dead? Big questions need big answers—even when little people ask! Parents can sigh with relief - their dreams have come true! A CBC Children's Book of the year, this book is for families to discover the key doctrines of Christianity in a way that stimulates discussion and helps children want to know more. Written by a professor of Reformed theology, this interactive resource includes Bible references, activities, and prayers for small children. Your family will grow closer as you discuss the mysteries of your faith. Paperback: 96 pages Price: $9.23

~ The Big Book of Questions & Answers About Jesus : A Family Guide to Jesus' Life and Ministry by Sinclair B. Ferguson Following on from the success of Big Book of Questions and Answers, this book tackles the many questions that children have about Jesus, including: What was special about Jesus? Why did Jesus heal sick people? Why did Jesus have to die? How can I give my life to Jesus? An answer is given for each question, accompanied by a page of reading and a memory verse. To help the children take the message on board there are activities and suggestions for discussion. Prayers are also given to encourage them to bring every aspect of life to their Heavenly Father. An invaluable tool for introducing children to Jesus and helping them to get to know Him better, in an enjoyable and interactive way. Paperback: 96 pages Price: $9.23

~ Trial and Triumph : Stories From Church History by Richard M. Hannula Reading level: Ages 9-12. Family stories are so important, and stories from our Church-family may be even more so. In this collection of brief biographies, Hannula sketches the stirring trials and triumphs of many famous and lesser known fathers and mothers of our faith — including Augustine, Charlemagne, Anselm, Calvin, Knox, Luther, Bunyan, etc. Paperback: 294 pages Price: $10.40

~ Ten Boys Who Changed the World by Irene Howat Reading level: Ages 4-8. George Muller was a thief when he was younger and spent time in jail for his crimes. Brother Andrew grew up in Holland at the time of the second World War and played tricks on German soldiers. Nicky Cruz grew up in a family where spirit worship was a regular occurance. He became a very angry young man, out to cause trouble. John Newton was captured at a very young age and forced to join Her Majesty's Navy, leaving his friends and family behind. What happened to these young boys and how did God turn things around to make them into men who changed their world? Read how George Muller was finally trusted with millions of pounds. Discover how Brother Andrew grew up to be a smuggler of Bibles. Read how Nicky Cruz was rescued from self-destruction and eventually went on to begin one of the largest youth organizations reaching out to hurt and confused young people throughout the world. Other "heroes of the faith" included in this book: Billy Graham, William Carey, David Livingstone, Adoniram Judson, Eric Liddell, Luis Palau. Paperback: 160 pages Price: $5.99

~ Ten Boys Who Didn't Give In : Inspiring Stories of Martyrs by Irene Howat Inspiring stories retold for children of the martyrs from church history: Polycarp, Sir John Oldcastle, Thomas Cranmer, George Wishart, James Chalmers, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Nate Saint, Ivan Moiseyev, Graham Staines. Paperback: 160 pages Price: $6.99

~ Ten Boys Who Made a Difference by Irene Howat Would you like to make a difference? These ten boys grew up to do just that - but first they had to change the church. How did God change them? Augustine discovered the love of God and changed the way we think; John Knox focused on God's word and told his country the truth; Martin Luther rediscovered God's truth and gave it to ordinary people; John Calvin realised that salvation was a gift from God and not a reward for what he did; William Tyndale longed to print the Bible in a language that everyone would understand; Hugh Latimer urged people to read the Bible for themselves and made enemies as a result; Jan Hus taught that God is in charge of the church and the world; Ulrich Zwingli challenged people to obey God's word in every area of their lives; Thomas Chalmers called the church to show Christ's comp